If you've been online any amount of time then you know prevalent online dating sites are. Maybe you've even tried a few, with varying degrees of success. In this article I'll give you three basic tips that can dramatically improve your chances of success, whatever it is for you.
The first step is to know exactly what you want. This means both from the relationship, and the person with which you are seeking a relationship. Is it a short term or long term? Serious romance or casual dating? Easy and quick one time intimacy or a lifetime of happiness and spiritual connection. The clearer you are with what kind of relationship you want, the easier it will be to find.
Next is to determine exactly who you will be hooking up with. Be as clear and specific as possible, about as many things as possible. Come up with three basic categories: Must haves, like to haves, and can't haves. Go easy on the must haves and the can't have's, other wise you'll make it hard on yourself.
Now you've got all that figured out, you need to promote yourself. Think about and list all of your positive qualities that a potential partner would likely find attractive. Be generous with yourself. The better you sell yourself and your strong points, the easier it will be to find your ideal match.
Now you're ready to start hunting. Contact as many people as you can that meet your minimum requirements. Online dating is numbers game more than anything else, so don't get hung up on one person too soon. Sort through as many as possible, and you'll find your match fairly quickly.
If you do these three simple steps, you will virtually guarantee that you will find exactly who you are looking for. And the sooner you get started, the sooner you will be on the lucky ones in a happy relationship. - 31991
The first step is to know exactly what you want. This means both from the relationship, and the person with which you are seeking a relationship. Is it a short term or long term? Serious romance or casual dating? Easy and quick one time intimacy or a lifetime of happiness and spiritual connection. The clearer you are with what kind of relationship you want, the easier it will be to find.
Next is to determine exactly who you will be hooking up with. Be as clear and specific as possible, about as many things as possible. Come up with three basic categories: Must haves, like to haves, and can't haves. Go easy on the must haves and the can't have's, other wise you'll make it hard on yourself.
Now you've got all that figured out, you need to promote yourself. Think about and list all of your positive qualities that a potential partner would likely find attractive. Be generous with yourself. The better you sell yourself and your strong points, the easier it will be to find your ideal match.
Now you're ready to start hunting. Contact as many people as you can that meet your minimum requirements. Online dating is numbers game more than anything else, so don't get hung up on one person too soon. Sort through as many as possible, and you'll find your match fairly quickly.
If you do these three simple steps, you will virtually guarantee that you will find exactly who you are looking for. And the sooner you get started, the sooner you will be on the lucky ones in a happy relationship. - 31991
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