What do you do during that first contact with a Russian woman online? Well you certainly will need to make sure that you're on a site that has a good reputation. One where they have screened those women who have come onto the site to ensure they are real women.
First off you have to remember that many average guys out there are with beautiful women. So don't look down on yourself, it's more about how you are inside, than what you look like. And when you're looking for a woman, Russian or other, that's the way you need to think of it too.
Some of these sites may even be able to arrange a meeting between you and one of their customers. But if you feel a bit safer by getting to know them first online, by all means that is what you should do. Avoid anyone who asks you for money, even if you've been talking to them for months. This should be a huge warning sign to you that this person could be out for a lot more.
With getting involved with a person online, you should be careful every step of the way. It's a lot harder to know when someone is telling you the truth. That is why it's so important to make sure you're using a site that has a good reputation. One that can prove they have matched up other people previously.
You should always take your time to get to know a person, sometimes love does happen quickly. But that isn't always the case; it's not all a Hollywood love story. So don't expect to go online and the first girl that you talk to is the perfect one for you.
Remember that it won't always be the first woman that you meet that could be your match. It may take a few tries before you find the right one, who will love you as much as you love them. Exchanging emails and even chatting online with messengers will help you and this woman grow closer and really get to know each other.
One thing anyone will warn you of is if they ask for money. And again you will be warned here, if they ask you for money, that's a big red flag that you need to pay attention too. You should make sure that if they ask you for money that you don't send anything.
Of course there is another side to this story too. Let's say you've been talking to the same woman for several months now, close to a year. If she asks you for money, you may be more willing to send the money. But before you do, check to see if you can find out the conversion rate and how much you will really be sending them.
Always make sure that you follow the rule of being honest with the person you're talking too. You are expecting them to be truthful with you, so it's only right. If you've sent an old picture because you're now bald, well be honest up front. Because you could be setting up a bad scene when you finally meet each other if you're not.
Look for your Russian woman and take your time in getting to know them. - 31991
First off you have to remember that many average guys out there are with beautiful women. So don't look down on yourself, it's more about how you are inside, than what you look like. And when you're looking for a woman, Russian or other, that's the way you need to think of it too.
Some of these sites may even be able to arrange a meeting between you and one of their customers. But if you feel a bit safer by getting to know them first online, by all means that is what you should do. Avoid anyone who asks you for money, even if you've been talking to them for months. This should be a huge warning sign to you that this person could be out for a lot more.
With getting involved with a person online, you should be careful every step of the way. It's a lot harder to know when someone is telling you the truth. That is why it's so important to make sure you're using a site that has a good reputation. One that can prove they have matched up other people previously.
You should always take your time to get to know a person, sometimes love does happen quickly. But that isn't always the case; it's not all a Hollywood love story. So don't expect to go online and the first girl that you talk to is the perfect one for you.
Remember that it won't always be the first woman that you meet that could be your match. It may take a few tries before you find the right one, who will love you as much as you love them. Exchanging emails and even chatting online with messengers will help you and this woman grow closer and really get to know each other.
One thing anyone will warn you of is if they ask for money. And again you will be warned here, if they ask you for money, that's a big red flag that you need to pay attention too. You should make sure that if they ask you for money that you don't send anything.
Of course there is another side to this story too. Let's say you've been talking to the same woman for several months now, close to a year. If she asks you for money, you may be more willing to send the money. But before you do, check to see if you can find out the conversion rate and how much you will really be sending them.
Always make sure that you follow the rule of being honest with the person you're talking too. You are expecting them to be truthful with you, so it's only right. If you've sent an old picture because you're now bald, well be honest up front. Because you could be setting up a bad scene when you finally meet each other if you're not.
Look for your Russian woman and take your time in getting to know them. - 31991
About the Author:
Mark De Schutter is the owner of a Russian dating site called "Russian Dating Live". This is a web dating service for men who wish to get in contact with Russian ladies who are interested about marriage to foreign men.
