Getting Into The Dating Scene For Single Parents

By Janice Lee

It is not easy balancing being a single parent with dating. Single parents face many other challenges than those who are just single and dating. Here are several dating tips for single parents to help ease that nervousness. For those who have already taken the plunge into dating; some single parenting tips to help you discuss your new dating life with your children follow the dating points for single parents.

Make a list of qualities your dating partner must have, qualities you would like them to possess and qualities that absolutely will not work for you. If a long term kinship is your goal; a desire to have a family might be important. Qualities that you do not want may include a party life style or lack of motivation. You may also want someone who has an understanding of the demands of parenthood or at least a desire to learn about those demands.

Be mindful of your appearance when in social settings. Don't wear overly revealing apparel. You don't want to give the impression that you are readily available. Act like you are respectful of yourself and your date.

Have a strong network of acquaintances. Participating in social activities with friends is a great way to meet people with like interests in a nonthreatening group environment. Don't be afraid to initiate conversation and introduce yourself to someone you are interested in.

For blind dates, get contact information. Begin corresponding with the person via email so you can begin to learn about the person. Conversation goes more easily when you already have an thought of the person's pursuits. This will assist ease nervousness on the first date; and and this will make the date much more fun.

Getting the subject addressed with the kids may seem difficult and awkward. It needn't be stressful. A simple response that you are spending time with a close friend will suffice in the beginning. If a relationship advances into more; you can begin to discuss you dating partner with your children. Give your children time to adapt to this new person who is getting so much of your attention. Expect your children to have questions and concerns. Answer their questions honestly and keep the communication lines open. Assure your children they are still your priority and you dating does not change how you feel or take care of them. - 31991

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