Why Do Men And Women Cheat

By Matt Fuller

It's commonly interpreted that men and women cheat due to a stale sex life within their relationship. Results from a recent online dating survey suggests 67% of respondents thought other factors played a role outside the bedroom.

Around 10% of married women will hope the fence for no conclusive reason, men's desire to cheat can oftentimes be assigned to the fact that they are biologically polygamous.

Regardless of the condition the relationship was in, vanity or non-self-belief problems were not a determining factor as to why people cheat, rather think of someone that is dependent on drugs or something else that requires will power to stay away from that calls for a calculated decision whether to go there or not. For some individuals, cheating can be attributed to our biological make up.

Most of us can be satisfied with the thought that the majority of men and women are not built to cheat from birth. Our research strongly suggested that there is no one single reason or reasons that drive us into the arms of another. What can be blamed though is the unwillingness of couples to address intimacy issues within a relationship.

Areas within a union such as marriage and finance or having to relinquish a degree of ones independence are factors that contribute to the demise of relationships. A couple should know the tell tale signs that include isolation, depression and a lack in ability to communication these problems with each other.

Relationships that lack sustenance and communication are prime prospects for infidelity. When women stop encountering special attention from their spouse, it becomes a chore for her to be all perky and sexy when her self assurance is shot.

Low self esteem is probably the biggest factor in what contributes to failed relationships. Sex, intimacy and romance all suffer. And it is these elements within a relationship that are the driving force behind its success, and without it, there is no relationship.

For some men however, nothing is ever adequate to keep them truehearted, with one of the responders offering this sentiment. "Even the finest dish becomes tedious if you have it every day"

Regardless of gender, it's the decisions we make in life that determine our true inner value.

Dealing with the news of infidelity can be handled well or not so well. We would advise those recipients to take a calm and controlled response, and deal with any such situation with a cool head - revenge is fine, but take revenge in a way that will affect them emotionally, not physically.

Men and women cheat since they have no real conception of the grandness of love. Their main focal point in life is to gratify core base like animal pleasure, turning progressively immoral, overwrought and lose touch with the ability to stand by the valuable creation of the soul. - 31991

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