The holiday festivities are almost upon us. If you are not with someone, you may be thinking about finding someone to enjoy your holiday time with. Some may turn to internet dating as a way to advance the process of finding a special love interest. Some people may be judgmental in saying that a few months is not long enough to be bringing someone to the company Christmas party, but, like anything else, you must decide what is right for you! Spending time with someone during the holidays can actually give you good insight into what a person is really like
How the Holidays Can Help You Learn
How They Respond to Children - How does your potential partner react to the joys of children around the holidays? Do they enjoy it too or try to steer clear? This can be a good indicator to what your future may look like and if you are on the same page.
Family & Friend Interaction- How will they act around the loved ones currently in your life if you take them along to a gathering? Will they interact with your family and friends or not participate in discussions or make small talk? If they are uncomfortable with those close to you, that should raise a red flag. Are they possessive? Or overly shy?
Can You Count On Them? - We all know how much time can be spent preparing for a party, especially for areas like the menu. You may be purchasing a special outfit just for the night or have to hire a sitter. Can you count on the person who is supposed to go with you to show up and in a timely manner? Is there attire fit for the occasion? You don't want a love interest who you cannot depend on.
Abuse of Substances - Having a few holiday drinks aside, but they may be using the holidays as an excuse - I doubt anyone reading this would want to spend their holidays, much less their life, with an addict.
The Joy of Giving - You may have only known this person a few months, how would you feel exchanging gifts? Will you discuss this prior to Christmas? For the record, if you've been finding joy in the person's company, a small gift should be given in the spirit of the season.. Which brings us to our next point...
Spending During a Recession - There is currently a recession, and the holidays are not going to make that go away. Nevertheless, people still want to enjoy the holidays, but will scale back spending on celebrations. Will your partner be ok without splurging?? Are they empathetic to others? Maybe you volunteer your time at a shelter or kitchen - would they help out??
Be Realistic
Don't lose site of the fact that these ARE the holidays, a time of added stress. Truthfully, many are actually depressed during this season. Your partner could have a lot on their plate. So don't be depending your love interest to keep you happy and joyful all season. - 31991
How the Holidays Can Help You Learn
How They Respond to Children - How does your potential partner react to the joys of children around the holidays? Do they enjoy it too or try to steer clear? This can be a good indicator to what your future may look like and if you are on the same page.
Family & Friend Interaction- How will they act around the loved ones currently in your life if you take them along to a gathering? Will they interact with your family and friends or not participate in discussions or make small talk? If they are uncomfortable with those close to you, that should raise a red flag. Are they possessive? Or overly shy?
Can You Count On Them? - We all know how much time can be spent preparing for a party, especially for areas like the menu. You may be purchasing a special outfit just for the night or have to hire a sitter. Can you count on the person who is supposed to go with you to show up and in a timely manner? Is there attire fit for the occasion? You don't want a love interest who you cannot depend on.
Abuse of Substances - Having a few holiday drinks aside, but they may be using the holidays as an excuse - I doubt anyone reading this would want to spend their holidays, much less their life, with an addict.
The Joy of Giving - You may have only known this person a few months, how would you feel exchanging gifts? Will you discuss this prior to Christmas? For the record, if you've been finding joy in the person's company, a small gift should be given in the spirit of the season.. Which brings us to our next point...
Spending During a Recession - There is currently a recession, and the holidays are not going to make that go away. Nevertheless, people still want to enjoy the holidays, but will scale back spending on celebrations. Will your partner be ok without splurging?? Are they empathetic to others? Maybe you volunteer your time at a shelter or kitchen - would they help out??
Be Realistic
Don't lose site of the fact that these ARE the holidays, a time of added stress. Truthfully, many are actually depressed during this season. Your partner could have a lot on their plate. So don't be depending your love interest to keep you happy and joyful all season. - 31991
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