How to Get Back With My Ex Girlfriend

By Julie Conners

If you are wondering how you can get back with your ex girlfriend, the first thing that you need to understand is that this is a very delicate situation. Your feelings may be hurt, and her feelings may also be hurt. And it is important that you are careful about what you're doing accordingly, otherwise feelings may be hurt even worse.Here are the considerations that you need to make when it comes to figuring out how to get back with your ex girlfriend.

You should probably figure out first what caused the breakup. The chance that she broke up with you for no good reason isnt that likely, so try hard to think about what it was that caused the breakup. So you need to make sure you figure this out before you do anything else, that way you can start thinking about how to fix it.

Now, if you're the reason for the breakup with your ex girlfriend, then the first thing you'll want to do is let her know that you recognize what you did wrong. Tell her you know it was your fault. And if you havent already, say you're sorry for what you did and beg for forgiveness.

You should continue to socialize with other people, even though you are trying to court your ex again. Just because you and your ex are not in contact right now, that does not mean that you need to cut yourself off from the rest of the world. You should date another girl, or at least go out and have some fun with your friends. It may even work to your advantage for you to cause some jealousy in your ex partner if you really do want to get them back.

While showing your ex that you've moved on, be careful not to go too overboard. If you do this right, it is one of the best ways of getting your ex to come back to you. Showing her that you have only sort of gotten over her, but that you still care about her, will help her see that you might be more of a man.

And you will also want to work on your friendship during all this. By doing this, it will help you get close to her again and build trust in each other again.

And if you feel brave enough, you can ask her why it was you two broke up in the first place. And this can only go one of two ways, that it was a mistake, or that the breakup was a good thing. But once you have this answer, you now have something to work with. - 31991

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