It is somehow part of our biological make up for us, guys, to flirt with girls, although we may have suffered a lack of self-confidence in associating with them while we were growing up. For some reason, this insecurity may have been initiated while we were entering the adolescent period, and for a few, this have not disappeared. There is something probably magical about the maturity process of morphing from a teenage boy to a young man in the way we look and think.
Our capacity to achieve what our hearts long for is weighed down by this insecurity to mingle with women, notwithstanding the factors that may have caused it. This may ring true even in the other facets in our life like gaining eligibility to play football in high school, applying for a new job and flirting. Nevertheless, we accept the reality that to be able to get what we want, we have to purposely strive hard to reach our goals.
This is as real in flirting with a girl and as with applying for a new job. Principally, our distress stems from not knowing how to sell ourselves. Candidly, our main reason for flirting is to capture the attention and interest of that person from the other gender. By doing this, we are actually vending ourselves to that other person. Akin to marketing a commodity, confidence is vital so that others will be persuaded to buy what is for sale.
Many say that if we do not like ourselves, then others will find it difficult to like us. This is what happens in flirting and it has an immediate effect on ones success in flirting. The initial step to take when flirting is to refrain from entertaining the idea that you will be unsuccessful. By making no assumptions about the outcome of your attempts, you do not expect to succeed or fail. Nothing is lost then.
You are exposing your emotions to vulnerability if you expect too much from your flirting. Therefore, it is wise to accept the likelihood that the lady might say no. By taking this stance, you protect your feelings from getting hurt. You will impersonally manage rejection.
Flirting is just all about making the girl aware of your presence and engaging in chitchat to determine if you could get along well. When initiating small talk, we assume a casual attitude that keeps us from worrying if we get rejected or not.
Flirting takes the form of an ordinary conversation when the fear of rejection is eliminated. Nonetheless, the talk is aimed at getting the person's attention. Conquering the fear of rejection is the secret to effective flirting. - 31991
Our capacity to achieve what our hearts long for is weighed down by this insecurity to mingle with women, notwithstanding the factors that may have caused it. This may ring true even in the other facets in our life like gaining eligibility to play football in high school, applying for a new job and flirting. Nevertheless, we accept the reality that to be able to get what we want, we have to purposely strive hard to reach our goals.
This is as real in flirting with a girl and as with applying for a new job. Principally, our distress stems from not knowing how to sell ourselves. Candidly, our main reason for flirting is to capture the attention and interest of that person from the other gender. By doing this, we are actually vending ourselves to that other person. Akin to marketing a commodity, confidence is vital so that others will be persuaded to buy what is for sale.
Many say that if we do not like ourselves, then others will find it difficult to like us. This is what happens in flirting and it has an immediate effect on ones success in flirting. The initial step to take when flirting is to refrain from entertaining the idea that you will be unsuccessful. By making no assumptions about the outcome of your attempts, you do not expect to succeed or fail. Nothing is lost then.
You are exposing your emotions to vulnerability if you expect too much from your flirting. Therefore, it is wise to accept the likelihood that the lady might say no. By taking this stance, you protect your feelings from getting hurt. You will impersonally manage rejection.
Flirting is just all about making the girl aware of your presence and engaging in chitchat to determine if you could get along well. When initiating small talk, we assume a casual attitude that keeps us from worrying if we get rejected or not.
Flirting takes the form of an ordinary conversation when the fear of rejection is eliminated. Nonetheless, the talk is aimed at getting the person's attention. Conquering the fear of rejection is the secret to effective flirting. - 31991
