There is 100% totally free online dating service where you can meet people online with no membership fees. You can save your money to buy that person you meet online a cup of coffee. I remember back in the dark ages before the internet was so common place when people used the newspaper to meet people. It was the personal ad section. And in the major metropolitan newspaper in the city I lived in had a personal section listed in the classified section.
Where I lived the city's largest newspaper started with one or two pages of personal ads. It grew in about a year to seven or eight pages of people listing their availability. The personal ads listed the basics and what that person enjoys doing; long walks on the beach and all that. It was like online ads now except with no photos, only print descriptions.
With this newspaper it was free to list your personal ad. But if you wanted to respond to an ad you had to pay per minute when you called. Yes this was done by telephone.
You would call and enter the number of the ad you were interested in and leave a message. You then hoped the person would call you back on the number you left. Usually your home lan line, there were no cell phones back then. I got wise to the game quickly.
I came up with a standard message for each ad I would respond to. I would call up and say basically I was looking for a girl who enjoyed being spoiled. This worked well as most of the girls I left a message for would call me back. It was the part of me spoiling them that got their interest. You see people do not want to hear what you want they want know what you will give them. It is the basic what is in it for me game.
Believe it or not I cannot remember the whole message I used to leave. But that was the core of it, and it worked for me. My call was returned by almost every girl I left that message for. And because it was the same message I was able to keep my telephone bill to a minimum. The part that got the girl to call back was the part about spoiling them.
It probably did not hurt that I was a lawyer either; women somehow equate lawyers with lots of money although I never made lots of money as a lawyer. But the reason they called back was because they liked the part about being spoiled. You see women do not want to know what guys want.
Women want to hear you are willing to spoil them. I have my reasons why I do not want to run with the online dating scene even just because there is a 100% totally free online dating service. I would play it the same way I did before though back in the dark ages when newspaper dating was all the rage. I would let the girls hear what they want to hear. Let them know what you are willing to do for them. That is the only time they hear you. - 31991
Where I lived the city's largest newspaper started with one or two pages of personal ads. It grew in about a year to seven or eight pages of people listing their availability. The personal ads listed the basics and what that person enjoys doing; long walks on the beach and all that. It was like online ads now except with no photos, only print descriptions.
With this newspaper it was free to list your personal ad. But if you wanted to respond to an ad you had to pay per minute when you called. Yes this was done by telephone.
You would call and enter the number of the ad you were interested in and leave a message. You then hoped the person would call you back on the number you left. Usually your home lan line, there were no cell phones back then. I got wise to the game quickly.
I came up with a standard message for each ad I would respond to. I would call up and say basically I was looking for a girl who enjoyed being spoiled. This worked well as most of the girls I left a message for would call me back. It was the part of me spoiling them that got their interest. You see people do not want to hear what you want they want know what you will give them. It is the basic what is in it for me game.
Believe it or not I cannot remember the whole message I used to leave. But that was the core of it, and it worked for me. My call was returned by almost every girl I left that message for. And because it was the same message I was able to keep my telephone bill to a minimum. The part that got the girl to call back was the part about spoiling them.
It probably did not hurt that I was a lawyer either; women somehow equate lawyers with lots of money although I never made lots of money as a lawyer. But the reason they called back was because they liked the part about being spoiled. You see women do not want to know what guys want.
Women want to hear you are willing to spoil them. I have my reasons why I do not want to run with the online dating scene even just because there is a 100% totally free online dating service. I would play it the same way I did before though back in the dark ages when newspaper dating was all the rage. I would let the girls hear what they want to hear. Let them know what you are willing to do for them. That is the only time they hear you. - 31991
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