Mixing a young Russian woman and older western men can be a volatile mixture, to say the least. It would seem obvious that if a young Russian woman was willing to consider having a romantic or marital relationship with an older western man, her motives would not be the best. On occasion, though, that is not the case. How can you tell the difference?
If you are an older man, the first things you should think about are your own motivations for wanting a young woman, Russian or otherwise. If your motives are primarily sexual, you are probably headed for a world of grief. You may get what you want, but the emotional and financial costs will be very high. If you are unscrupulous and want to take advantage of a girl, she is in a position to be more unscrupulous. If you believe Russian women desire older men for casual liaisons, you are in for a big surprise.
On the other hand, you may be looking for a genuine, lasting relationship with a Russian and are not primarily interested in her age or sex appeal. In that case, you may actually find a younger Russian woman who is looking for a genuine, heartfelt relationship with an older Western man.
Most women, like most men, are seeking fidelity in their relationships. Some women have just grown weary of dating young men who are irresponsible and unfaithful. These women may have developed a preference for older men.
Often the fact that many women are looking for a financially secure partner causes us to label them as "gold diggers." That is not always the situation, though. It is natural for a woman who will primarily be dependent on her husband for her financial welfare to seek a relationship with a man who can provide her with a level of security that often only older men can provide. If she is mature and not just after a "sugar daddy, " a relationship like this can work.
We in the West are accustomed to the notion of romantic love being the basis of a lasting relationship. The facts fly in the face of this, though. Romantic love fades, no matter how passionate it is in the beginning. Other cultures have traditions of arranged marriages. While this sounds cold, these relationships often develop into long term, loving relationships.
A young Russian woman and older western men will both be looking for one another on internet dating sites and matchmaking sites. It is of utmost importance to your chances of success to choose the right site. If you go to a site that features a handful of voluptuous young women who are "attracted" to older Western men, get out of there before it's too late! If the site features an extension database of men and women of different ages, appearance and backgrounds, it may be worth exploring further. - 31991
If you are an older man, the first things you should think about are your own motivations for wanting a young woman, Russian or otherwise. If your motives are primarily sexual, you are probably headed for a world of grief. You may get what you want, but the emotional and financial costs will be very high. If you are unscrupulous and want to take advantage of a girl, she is in a position to be more unscrupulous. If you believe Russian women desire older men for casual liaisons, you are in for a big surprise.
On the other hand, you may be looking for a genuine, lasting relationship with a Russian and are not primarily interested in her age or sex appeal. In that case, you may actually find a younger Russian woman who is looking for a genuine, heartfelt relationship with an older Western man.
Most women, like most men, are seeking fidelity in their relationships. Some women have just grown weary of dating young men who are irresponsible and unfaithful. These women may have developed a preference for older men.
Often the fact that many women are looking for a financially secure partner causes us to label them as "gold diggers." That is not always the situation, though. It is natural for a woman who will primarily be dependent on her husband for her financial welfare to seek a relationship with a man who can provide her with a level of security that often only older men can provide. If she is mature and not just after a "sugar daddy, " a relationship like this can work.
We in the West are accustomed to the notion of romantic love being the basis of a lasting relationship. The facts fly in the face of this, though. Romantic love fades, no matter how passionate it is in the beginning. Other cultures have traditions of arranged marriages. While this sounds cold, these relationships often develop into long term, loving relationships.
A young Russian woman and older western men will both be looking for one another on internet dating sites and matchmaking sites. It is of utmost importance to your chances of success to choose the right site. If you go to a site that features a handful of voluptuous young women who are "attracted" to older Western men, get out of there before it's too late! If the site features an extension database of men and women of different ages, appearance and backgrounds, it may be worth exploring further. - 31991
About the Author:
Mark De Schutter is the webmaster of a Russian dating service called "Charming Russian Brides". This is an internet dating service for men who would like to meet Russian women who are interested about marriage to foreign men.
