When Is The Appropriate Time To Be Intimate In A Relationship?

By Matt Fuller

It's often very hard to resist introducing intimacy into the early stages of a relationship when the attraction between two people is strong. It can be like trying to ply apart two magnetic forces that will inevitably join together.

As fantastic as having an intimate moment can be, it also has the ability to cloud your judgment. When intimacy becomes part of the issue, things start to look much different than when you first met.

If a newly forged couple come to the decision not to reach a commitment then that's okay as long as both people are fully aware of each others expectations. Becoming intimate too soon is a good way to spoil a great new relationship.

Women often feel the pressure to be intimate with her partner through fear of disappointing him. In general, women often feel more of an affectionate bond after being intimate, however men can view this simply as just a sensual act and are less inclined to feel an emotional bond. It's important to take these matters on board if you have just begun dating someone you would consider a future with.

The contrasting views society has placed on men and women is never more evident when it comes to intimacy. There seems to be no problem with a man having many girlfriends, and this behavior even breeds popularity among one's peers. However when a woman become too intimate too often, her actions are brought into question, and many men view women with intimacy issues as non worthy relationship material.

The thing is, as much as men go after intimacy, when a woman buckles under too easily, men often have limited respect for her after the deed is done. So if you want your man to hang around, make him earn the right to be intimate with you. Males are also acknowledged for placing further respect in his lady in regards to the quantity of people she has been intimate with.

If it's a long term and secure relationship you desire, perhaps think twice about becoming intimate too soon if you have met someone you see as more than just a short term proposition. - 31991

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