There Is No Formula To Approach Girls

By Ai Qin Lee

If you some trouble when you approach girls you might be looking for a one size fits all plan to give you some sort of special edge. The problem is that all girls are a little different and how you approach one might be different than how you would approach another.

Some girls prefer a funny style while other girls prefer a guy who is cool. Some girls figure they'll know the right type of guy when she sees him. This makes it very difficult to put together a cookie cutter recipe for the best way to approach girls. But don't give up, because there are a few ideas that you can take with you that will make it much better.

Dignity is attractive to a girl while arrogance is not. Dignity is kind of about respect. It's about respecting yourself without disrespecting anyone else, including a girl that just turned you down.

It's a simple matter of dignity and confidence. Talk to a girl and look her in the eye. Smile at a girl and toss her a wink, even if she doesn't respond.

Her opinions are developed by her own perception of the information she has. There are all kinds of reasons that she might turn you down. Your self worth has nothing to do with whether or not you can approach girls one at a time and land dates from the first meeting.

To keep the focus on the girl, approach her with a gentle greeting followed by a compliment. Don't be cheesy about it, but be honest about why you're trying to approach her.

As you learn to approach girls and you make a few various errors, you will also learn that you can recover from a bad line or an inappropriate comment and try again. Everyone makes mistakes and you're not immune to them. Don't take it as strike, but as being one step closer to being the coolest guy ever when you approach girls now that you know what not to do. - 31991

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