Questions are the most amazing thing that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his best-selling book, "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the power of asking good questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you've been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to final base, saving a lot of time trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you're a lady and want to pamper a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are most popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation jump-started. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you're a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What is you all time favourite film and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
8. What do you regret not doing the most in your life?
8. What's the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. What's the highest priority for you when considering a partner - good looks, intelligence, sense of humor, or something else?
And now let's get a little risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so were you seen?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you masturbating? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever serial sex - with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day? - 31991
Dale Carnegie in his best-selling book, "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the power of asking good questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you've been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to final base, saving a lot of time trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you're a lady and want to pamper a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are most popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation jump-started. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you're a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What is you all time favourite film and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
8. What do you regret not doing the most in your life?
8. What's the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. What's the highest priority for you when considering a partner - good looks, intelligence, sense of humor, or something else?
And now let's get a little risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so were you seen?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you masturbating? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever serial sex - with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day? - 31991
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