What qualities would make a Russian women a perfect wife for a Western men? Taking a look at a few of the things that each of them desire in a mate, sheds some light on this question:
American men secretly wish to find a sweet, old-fashioned girl - steeped in tradition, just like good old Dad did. They love the idea of taking care of, and spoiling their princesses - who they will joyfully spend their lives with. Although companionship is also an important quality to consider, men long to lavish attention on a woman who believes in, and supports them, through thick and thin. Someone who stays confident, and never questions, that her man will somehow make everything alright - no matter what it is, is something some men only dream they could have with their woman. And when a girl needs only her man to show her the things about life she doesn't know, a man's heart is won forever. The simple fact is - a man wants a woman who makes him see the man he's always longed to be, looking back in his mirror at him - a man others respect, love, and have confidence in. Someone who can make him feel this way, is a damsel worth rescuing from the dragon.
Mother Russia's little girl dreams of such a hero to carry her away from a drab existence, to a castle of gold. In her eyes, this kind of man can make all that's wrong turn right. How can a girl resist a man who showers her with attention, and makes her his queen? The fairytale comes true after all - she has everything, and more, than she ever dreamed, all lovingly given to her by the man sent to adore, and take of her. The fact that he works so hard to get it for her, makes him more precious to her than ever.
On her end, the woman returns the favor by turning that house into a warm and welcoming home for the man to return to every day. She may meet him at the door each day with a drink - and a home-cooked meal is ready for him at the table. Her clean and smiling children run to hug him when he gets home, and she lends him a loving ear in which to vent the days frustrations, in addition to offering up her own brand of understanding to him at lights out.
On the whole, many men fear their ancient birthright to be men, is becoming a thing of the past. From creation, males are told their job is to be a loving partner and decision-maker, who provides his wife and family with what they need to live comfortably - and does everything in their power to keep them safe. The new no-more-rules for being female rule that rode in with the feminist tide, changed the attitudes of many ladies - and made many men unsure of what they should do with this strange, and slightly less-feminine, new creature.
The ultimate dream girl, for many men, has plenty of feminine sex appeal and intelligence, is happy in all the roles of a woman, and more importantly - is also agreeable to staying out of the male world, with all its dirt and grime. Many Russian girls are known for a complacent nature, in addition to possessing charm and beauty. The traditional female role a man may have non-exist ant, is the very one this woman wants, and needs, to make her feel fulfilled. She's smart enough to realize the differences between the sexes were put there for a reason, and has no desire to do any of the boundary crossing attempted by other women.
To Russian women looking for a hero, it's a simple equation of boy and girl adding up to the right answer. As they see it, they are in the role God intended for them - and they have no desire to step outside of it and attempt to take on the very difficult job of being a man.
Qualities that make a Russian women a perfect wife for a western men are evident - based on the fact that what she has to offer, and is looking for, bares a striking resemblance to what he offers, and needs, in a mate, as well. - 31991
American men secretly wish to find a sweet, old-fashioned girl - steeped in tradition, just like good old Dad did. They love the idea of taking care of, and spoiling their princesses - who they will joyfully spend their lives with. Although companionship is also an important quality to consider, men long to lavish attention on a woman who believes in, and supports them, through thick and thin. Someone who stays confident, and never questions, that her man will somehow make everything alright - no matter what it is, is something some men only dream they could have with their woman. And when a girl needs only her man to show her the things about life she doesn't know, a man's heart is won forever. The simple fact is - a man wants a woman who makes him see the man he's always longed to be, looking back in his mirror at him - a man others respect, love, and have confidence in. Someone who can make him feel this way, is a damsel worth rescuing from the dragon.
Mother Russia's little girl dreams of such a hero to carry her away from a drab existence, to a castle of gold. In her eyes, this kind of man can make all that's wrong turn right. How can a girl resist a man who showers her with attention, and makes her his queen? The fairytale comes true after all - she has everything, and more, than she ever dreamed, all lovingly given to her by the man sent to adore, and take of her. The fact that he works so hard to get it for her, makes him more precious to her than ever.
On her end, the woman returns the favor by turning that house into a warm and welcoming home for the man to return to every day. She may meet him at the door each day with a drink - and a home-cooked meal is ready for him at the table. Her clean and smiling children run to hug him when he gets home, and she lends him a loving ear in which to vent the days frustrations, in addition to offering up her own brand of understanding to him at lights out.
On the whole, many men fear their ancient birthright to be men, is becoming a thing of the past. From creation, males are told their job is to be a loving partner and decision-maker, who provides his wife and family with what they need to live comfortably - and does everything in their power to keep them safe. The new no-more-rules for being female rule that rode in with the feminist tide, changed the attitudes of many ladies - and made many men unsure of what they should do with this strange, and slightly less-feminine, new creature.
The ultimate dream girl, for many men, has plenty of feminine sex appeal and intelligence, is happy in all the roles of a woman, and more importantly - is also agreeable to staying out of the male world, with all its dirt and grime. Many Russian girls are known for a complacent nature, in addition to possessing charm and beauty. The traditional female role a man may have non-exist ant, is the very one this woman wants, and needs, to make her feel fulfilled. She's smart enough to realize the differences between the sexes were put there for a reason, and has no desire to do any of the boundary crossing attempted by other women.
To Russian women looking for a hero, it's a simple equation of boy and girl adding up to the right answer. As they see it, they are in the role God intended for them - and they have no desire to step outside of it and attempt to take on the very difficult job of being a man.
Qualities that make a Russian women a perfect wife for a western men are evident - based on the fact that what she has to offer, and is looking for, bares a striking resemblance to what he offers, and needs, in a mate, as well. - 31991
About the Author:
Mark De Schutter is the owner of a Russian dating site called "Russian Dating Live". This is an international dating service for men who would like to get in contact with Russian ladies who are serious about marriage to Western men.
